Another story of Saya: “They Just Don’t Get My WORDS”

Saya always speaks her mind bluntly, but that doesn’t mean she never think before she speak up. She knows really well how tongue can be sharper than a sword [heleh Indonesia bgd]. Sometimes people find her frontal, that’s why she used to have a communication problem with others

When the visitor of her blog kinda decreasing, Saya came up with the idea of doing ‘push information’ of her blog via IM (instant messaging). Bcoz Saya found out that the most question asked on a chat room are:
1. “asl pls” [haha it must be the 1st question they ask her]
2. “kul/ker?”
3. “punya friendster ga?” or “any pic?”

Nah! from the third question, Saya will lead ‘em to see her blog instead her account in friendster [watta smart thought girl]. But apparently they don’t seem to care about her posting, hahaha…  and keep asking questions which answer is already  there! over there! on her blog, doh?

–One day when Saya chat with a guy called capricorn –
[...]
Capricorn: Buzz!
Capricorn: Udah ngga mau chat sama aku lagi ya?
Saya: Oh sorry ya lama nunggu
Capricorn: kenapa sih? lagi chat sama banyak orang ya?
Saya: ya gitu deh
Capricorn: Ngobrolnya jadi ngga seru nih
Saya: hehe gitu ya?
Capricorn: Apa chat sama yang lain aja?
Saya: Wokeh
Capricorn: Kok Wokeh?
Saya: lha bukannya tadi bilang mau chat sama yg lain?
Saya: ya kalau ngga mau nunggu lama kan just leave this PM (private message), right?
Saya: It’s just that simple
Capricorn: Loh kok ngusir sih?
Saya: Lha? siapa yang ngusir?
Capricorn: Gitu banget sih jadi orang?
Capricorn: Jadi orang kok ngga beradab
[...]

Saya’s thought: ‘duh sumpah ye! kalimat terakhirnya itu bikin gue naik darah minta dijedotin kali ni orang?’ akhirnya Saya memutuskan untuk ignore si Capricorn itu and report him as spam, beres perkara. ‘Life’s too short to be filled with anger and hatred’ <– Saya’s motto, taken from American History X movie.

Errr tp dimana letak ngga beradab nya ya? Coz Saya just gave him a CLEAR answer ‘Wokeh’ and what’s wrong with that? Saya’s just letting him chat with others and if he thinks talking to Saya is boring, well Saya suggests him to close their PM, it’s just that simple, right? hadooh tu orang hidupnya kok seneng dibikin ribet ya?

Life’s not always turn in the way you want it to. And if you feel like the world has turning back on you, you can’t make the world change for you. but you’re the one who should adjust to the world.

Saya thought –>“Am I that complicated? I feel like I’m just being realistic”
Saya like to think a simple thought to make things less complicated, but it usually caused her problem with others.

Example of Saya’s vague sentence
“I’ve built a wall to protect my self from seeing you again”
What usually come up in people’s mind would be “okay, it means there’s no chance for me to see you ever again”. Meanwhile, what Saya really means is “yes, I’ve built a barrier to protect my self from seeing you, but come on it’s just a wall, who knows one day you can tear it down, or even I tear it down my self, so there’s still a chance for us to meet someday”, so come on baby break down that wall come on … come on …

Well, actually Saya is just expecting someone who could understand her ‘vague’ sentences such as when she said “I’ve built a wall to protect my self from seeing you again” actually she expected someone replied “ok then, I’ll try with all the best effort I can do to tear the wall down, so that we can meet again” uuuu … watta great hero would that be…

Me: ‘haha, yeah right! keep on dreamin girl’ but mostly, people just don’t get her point

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